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      <image:caption>For individuals or couples Become attuned to your physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and sexual wellness, which align you in building a life you love. The sessions combine traditional therapy approaches (such as Parts Work and Integrated Family Systems) with New Age healing modalities - Kundalini, Chakra Alignment, Sound Healing and the Tantric Buddhist "Chod Method" - a way to bring your shadow into consciousness and access the treasure it holds, instead of repressing it  You will learn easy action tools to support you in sustaining the changes you make.  Needs to have a note on a series of sessions.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Self Pleasure is so much more than a way to reach an orgasm. Self pleasure generates energy that can be used to heal and manifest in your life. You will be guided in a mediation to connect beyond the physical and engage with yourself in a deeper emotional and spiritual way. It is a powerful tool in processing abuse trauma and discovering deep desires.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Traditionally, in the Kink &amp; Fetish communities, BDSM stands for: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism. In my world, it's more like: Body, Devotion, Sensation and Mentality. Which is to say that I teach you how to use your senses and awareness to spiritually enjoy this sensual, sensory, tantric experience. Explore the ways your desires wish to be elevated with restriction or excess. Learn how to get to the essence of passion and have permission to play with it. * Please note that each session will include a 15 minute prep and 15 minute after care.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>News flash, if you don't know why you want to change, you won't. I can't help you change or promise you anything, because it is and can only be about you, for you, by you that you do, what you do or don't do (got to love free will).   What I can say for sure is: I will show you what it is like to get out of your own way and have it your way, in such a way that everyone is winning.  Check in with yourself, do you feel your body tingle with nervous excitement? You are powerful beyond measure, welcome &amp; honor that. This is your body guiding you towards the fulfillment of your desires. What else do you want to know? Let's talk, you can text me at 626-310-5159 or</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Christi Anne Bela is a public speaker, modern medicine woman and boundaries expert. Her TEDx Talk. "Building a Better Life with Boundaries", has provided thousands with the Emotional Intelligence and practical resources to shift how you approach connection. She is an advocate for shame healing as a means to eraticate sexual abuse. Christi Anne identifies as Queer, which emcompasses the fluid relationship to gender and sexuality. Her years of study on sexual health and personal practice of open marriage was the topic of her lecture at Cal State, on the techniques for Embodied Ethical Relationship Anarchy. Published author, keynote speaker, radio personality and Intimacy Architect. Her expertise is helping people discover the power of intimacy and how to harness it, opening themselves to living passionately. Christi Anne began her work as a sexuality educator in 2008. She has an extensive background in Tantra, Yoga, and wellness, including training at the Autism Center of America and the Kundalini Research Institute. Her career has spanned from being a hospice chaplain and a dominatrix. She knows the true power of living in your body, mind, and spirit, and channels that wisdom to guide people to build a life they love.  She is the founder of Intimacy Architecture, which combines self-growth and community building to create safer ways to enjoy and honor the power of our sexuality. The acronym she created, C.A.T.C.H., to teach boundaries to people of all ages and abilities is featured in the “Consent Guidebook”. Christi Anne has spoken on the subject of consent and boundaries at the Sex Down South Conference, Mega Disability Conference and the Arc Conference for the last 3 years. She has run workshops for Sex Positive World, body-positive Burlesque series, fundraisers for LGBTQ youth, and outreach with the Nashville Pride.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I am the founder of Intimacy Architecture and a proud supporter of authentic sexuality. I have come to understand the negative impact of shame on society and our relationships, and have made it my mission to heal the trauma and call out shame in our spiritual and sexual lives. Through a range of services and programs, including BDSM, yoga, breath work, tantra, sound healing, purity culture recovery, and spiritual healing, I aim to empower individuals and couples to explore their sexuality and grow as individuals. I believe in the power of sexuality and strive to honor and support queer and non-binary communities through my work. At Intimacy Architecture, I offer a dynamic and supportive environment for those seeking to enhance their connection with their partner or to find sexual and spiritual fulfillment.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ira Zezir was born Christi Anne Bela and recently came out as a non-binary person using they/them pronouns, Ira is a public speaker and expert in BDSM, boundaries, and ethics in sexual relationships. Since 2008, Ira has empowered people with emotional intelligence, breath work, and spiritual healing to cultivate meaningful connections. They advocate for shame healing and promotes a more just and equitable world through guidance on purity culture recovery, Queer identity, and Non-monogamous relationships. They also are a Nashville dominatrix and Intimacy Architect with extensive training in Tantra, Yoga, breath work, and sound healing. As the founder of Intimacy Architecture, Ira creates safer spaces for people to explore and honor their sexuality. Through workshops, fundraisers, and outreach with organizations such as Sex Positive World and Nashville Pride, they are making a positive impact as a sex coach and polyamory advocate.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ira Zezir is a Pleasure Advocate, Tantra Teacher, Public Speaker, and Boundaries Expert. Their TEDx Talk "Building a Better Life with Boundaries" provides accessible Emotional Intelligence tools and practical resources on connection. Their career has spanned from being a hospice chaplain and a dominatrix, to giving guest lectures on Polyamory and Sex Positivity at universities. It all began by teaching tantra, yoga and processing sexual abuse trauma. They know the true power of being in the body with grace, the wisdom of belonging and the ease of living that comes from Intimacy Architecture. “I have studied (and tried) it all, which is why my offerings get results, because I have a wealth of knowledge and resources to aid your needs; Wheel of Consent, Ritual Arts, Tantra, Yoga, Kundalini, Breath Work, Sound Healing, Chakras, BDSM, Body Work, Reiki, Thai Yoga Massage, Herbalism, Aromatherapy, Art Therapy, Astrology, Intuitive Insight, Crystals, Numerology and Gene Keys.”</image:caption>
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