Celebrating Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity
Welcome to the
Architecture of Intimacy
with Irah Zezir
Who’s it for?
People who want to…
Untangle Religious Trauma
Enhance Intimacy in Relationships
Improve Boundaries
Receive LBGTQ+ Affirming Care
Learn Tantra and Sex Magic
Design Your Relationships and Learn Tools of Polyamory
Process Pain of Past Lovers and Sexual Violations
Intimacy Building
We are in relationship with everything! How we connect to ourselves is woven into how we are in the world.
Let’s meet in person or online for a combo of coaching, somatics, energy work & ritual to build a life you love
Family Constellations
We are all part of the family system.
To belong is safety and survival.
When that reaching for connection is left disconnected, there is confusion, displacement, and longing to be seen and understood that can feel haunting.
A session takes place in a group or one-on-one setting where people represent or objects symbolize, members of your family system or constructs of social and emotional patterns.
Realizing that you are carrying emotional weight or trauma inherited from past generations, not a personal flaw to fix, is a willingness to allow all pieces and parts to belong.
Embodied Magic
Tantric Dominatrix In-person or virtual sessions that bring the erotic into integration
This is for those who are looking to go deeper and get really personal
Kink builds trust through radical communication, shared vulnerability, by explicitly negotiating boundaries and surrendering control within a safer container.
Imagine what your life would be like if you stopped feeling guilty, bad, or wrong, about yourself and embraced your desires so you can receive pleasure.
You can’t just think or talk your way out of intimacy problems. Your relationship patterns live in your senses, your gut, your fascia (the muscle memory), and your pelvic floor. Change comes from a somatic experience.
The Architecture of Intimacy guides you through building a life you love with the pillars of whole-hearted living that integrate physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and sexual awareness to therapy.
Dive Deeper …
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Our bodies are our home. How we feel physically is a huge part of how we show up in the world. The body keeps score, so in order to heal the body must shift.
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste or to let run wild. Knowing how to navigate your thoughts is how you become a master of yourself.
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Emotions are feelings in motion. You can ride the wave and stay a float or you can be drowned out by the tidal. Your emotional intelligence is key to communication.
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We are more than mind and body. We are energy, formless and infinite. A relationship to your spiritual being is part of what make you experience whole hearted love and acceptance.
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We are all here as a result of sex. Our lives literal depend on sex. So why do we carry so much shame around who we are sexually? Your life is only as successful as your embrace of all of who you are and you sexuality is a vital piece in you being you.
Whether you are processing trauma, breaking cycles of addiction and self-harm, grieving, breaking up, getting back together, coming out, realizing you are polyamorous or desiring to explore a kinky fantasy, the solution is always the same:
Heal the fear and shame to build a life you love
I have walked the path myself; let me show you a way through till you carve your own.
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