Welcome! I’m Ira Zezir, creator of The Architecture of Intimacy.
I use the word "Architecture" because we imagine, design, and build our lives.
Specializing in Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, from both a therapeutic and lived experience lens.
My life journey is constructed with pain, pleasure, love, and grief. I welcome a relationship with it all, that is, intimacy to me. I rebuilt my life by reclaiming my spirituality and trust in pleasure through tantra and intuitive relating. I was raised Catholic and plagued by generational abuse trauma, drowning in anxiety and addiction cycles, until I realized that unifying my sexuality with my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual energy was vital to living a divine life.
Who’s it for?
People who want to…
Untangle Religious Trauma
Improve Boundaries
Enhance Intimacy in Relationships
Explore Kink and BDSM
Learn Tantra and Sex Magic
Receive LBGTQ+ Affirming Care
Design Your Relationships and Learn Tools of Polyamory
Process Pain of Past Lovers and Sexual Violations
Intimacy Building ~ Online Sessions
$120 a month
2 - 45 minute online sessions
Ongoing support via text
Videos of practices
The architecture of Intimacy begins with deconstructing the misconceptions about yourself, excavatING the stuff that doesn’t work, then designing and building a life you do love, that integrates all of you with acceptance and passion.
harmonize your most important relationship, the one with yourself.
You can’t just think or talk your way out of intimacy problems. Your relationship patterns live in your senses, your gut, your fascia (the muscle memory), and your pelvic floor. change comes from a somatic experience.
The architecTure of intimacy guides you through building a life you love with the pillars of whole-hearted living that integrate physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and sexual awareness to therapy.
Dive Deeper …
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Our bodies are our home. How we feel physically is a huge part of how we show up in the world. The body keeps score, so in order to heal the body must shift.
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste or to let run wild. Knowing how to navigate your thoughts is how you become a master of yourself.
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Emotions are feelings in motion. You can ride the wave and stay a float or you can be drowned out by the tidal. Your emotional intelligence is key to communication.
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We are more than mind and body. We are energy, formless and infinite. A relationship to your spiritual being is part of what make you experience whole hearted love and acceptance.
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We are all here as a result of sex. Our lives literal depend on sex. So why do we carry so much shame around who we are sexually? Your life is only as successful as your embrace of all of who you are and you sexuality is a vital piece in you being you.
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