Gender, Sex, and Relationship Diversity
Who’s it for?
People who want to…
Untangle Religious Trauma
Enhance Intimacy in Relationships
Improve Boundaries
Receive LBGTQ+ Affirming Care
Learn Tantra and Sex Magic
Design Your Relationships and Learn Tools of Polyamory
Process Pain of Past Lovers and Sexual Violations
Meet Ira Zezir
Welcome! I’m Ira Zezir, creator of The Architecture of Intimacy.
Where and how do we begin to talk about sex, when society has shushed us…
The Architecture of Intimacy begins with deconstructing the misconceptions about yourself, excavating the stuff that doesn’t work, then designing and building a life you do love, that integrates all of you with acceptance and passion
I believe that we are all here from sexuality, and the greatest disruption to our lives is that we are separated from our sexuality, which is our life essence.
I use the word "Architecture" because we imagine, design, and build our lives.
From being a Hospice Chaplain, to being a Dominatrix, giving a TEDx Talk on Boundaries to lectures at Universities on Polyamoury, I have lived and studied a vast scope of relationships.
Specializing in Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, from both a therapeutic and lived experience lens.
Imagine what your life would be like if you stopped feeling guilty, bad, or wrong, about yourself and embraced your desires so you can receive pleasure.
You can’t just think or talk your way out of intimacy problems. Your relationship patterns live in your senses, your gut, your fascia (the muscle memory), and your pelvic floor. Change comes from a somatic experience.
The Architecture of Intimacy guides you through building a life you love with the pillars of whole-hearted living that integrate physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and sexual awareness to therapy.
Dive Deeper …
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Our bodies are our home. How we feel physically is a huge part of how we show up in the world. The body keeps score, so in order to heal the body must shift.
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The mind is a terrible thing to waste or to let run wild. Knowing how to navigate your thoughts is how you become a master of yourself.
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Emotions are feelings in motion. You can ride the wave and stay a float or you can be drowned out by the tidal. Your emotional intelligence is key to communication.
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We are more than mind and body. We are energy, formless and infinite. A relationship to your spiritual being is part of what make you experience whole hearted love and acceptance.
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We are all here as a result of sex. Our lives literal depend on sex. So why do we carry so much shame around who we are sexually? Your life is only as successful as your embrace of all of who you are and you sexuality is a vital piece in you being you.
Whether you are processing trauma, breaking cycles of addiction and self-harm, grieving, breaking up, getting back together, coming out, realizing you are polyamorous or desiring to explore a kinky fantasy, the solution is always the same: heal the fear and shame.
Let me help you find a way through.
Intimacy Building
$180
1 - 90-minute in-person or Online sessions
Ongoing support via text
Videos of practices
Relationship Remodel
$580
4 sessions In Person or Online therapy tools with new age rituals
Ongoing support via text
Videos of practices
Renovate your Life
$880
6 sessions In Person or Online therapy tools with new age rituals
Ongoing support via text
Videos of practices
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