Intimacy Architect

Welcome! I’m Ira Zezir

a Relationship Expert & Tantra Teacher

I was raised Catholic and reclaimed my spirituality and trust in pleasure.

EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY TO LIVE A LIFE YOU LOVE. NO MORE SHAME AND HIDING.

This is a safe place for you to explore your desires.

THIS IS INTIMACY ARCHITECTURE

Who’s it for?

People who want to…

Untangle Religious Trauma
Improve Boundaries
Enhance Intimacy in Relationships
Explore Kink and BDSM
Learn Tantra and Sex Magic
Receive LBGTQ+ Affirming Care
Design Your Relationships and Learn Tools of Polyamory
Process Pain of Past Lovers and Sexual Violations

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harmonize your most important relationship, the one with yourself.

You can’t just think or talk your way out of intimacy problems. Your relationship patterns live in your senses, your gut, your fascia (the muscle memory), and your pelvic floor. change comes from a somatic experience.

Intimacy architecure guides you through building a love you love with the pillars of whole hearted living.

Our bodies are our home. How we feel physically is a huge part of how we show up in the world. The body keeps score, so in order to heal the body must shift.
The mind is a terrible thing to waste or to let run wild. Knowing how to navigate your thoughts is how you become a master of yourself.
Emotions are feelings in motion. You can ride the wave and stay a float or you can be drowned out by the tidal. Your emotional intelligence is key to communication.
We are more than mind and body. We are energy, formless and infinite. A relationship to your spiritual being is part of what make you experience whole hearted love and acceptance.
We are all here as a result of sex. Our lives literal depend on sex. So why do we carry so much shame around who we are sexually? Your life is only as successful as your embrace of all of who you are and you sexuality is a vital piece in you being you.

I’m a pleasure advocate and have been a leader in the sex positive world since 2008.

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Meet ira

Ira Zezir is a Pleasure Advocate, Tantra Teacher, Public Speaker, and Boundaries Expert.

Their TEDx Talk "Building a Better Life with Boundaries" provides accessible Emotional Intelligence tools and practical resources on connection.

Their career has spanned from being a hospice chaplain and a dominatrix, to giving guest lectures on Polyamory and Sex Positivity at universities. It all began by teaching tantra, yoga and processing sexual abuse trauma.

They know the true power of being in the body with grace, the wisdom of belonging and the ease of living that comes from Intimacy Architecture.

“I have studied (and tried) it all, which is why my offerings get results, because I have a wealth of knowledge and resources to aid your needs; Wheel of Consent, Ritual Arts, Tantra, Yoga, Kundalini, Breath Work, Sound Healing, Chakras, BDSM, Body Work, Reiki, Thai Yoga Massage, Herbalism, Aromatherapy, Art Therapy, Astrology, Intuitive Insight, Crystals, Numerology and Gene Keys.”