“Say, YES authentically or what you might be saying yes to is resentment.
No is not a bad word.
Treat “No”, as a redirection, not a rejection”
Meet ira
Ira Zezir is a Pleasure Advocate, Tantra Teacher, Public Speaker, and Boundaries Expert.
Their TEDx Talk "Building a Better Life with Boundaries" provides accessible Emotional Intelligence tools and practical resources on connection.
Their career has spanned from being a hospice chaplain and a dominatrix, to giving guest lectures on Polyamory and Sex Positivity at universities. It all began by teaching tantra, yoga and processing sexual abuse trauma.
They know the true power of being in the body with grace, the wisdom of belonging and the ease of living that comes from Intimacy Architecture.
“I have studied (and tried) it all, which is why my offerings get results, because I have a wealth of knowledge and resources to aid your needs; Wheel of Consent, Ritual Arts, Tantra, Yoga, Kundalini, Breath Work, Sound Healing, Chakras, BDSM, Body Work, Reiki, Thai Yoga Massage, Herbalism, Aromatherapy, Art Therapy, Astrology, Intuitive Insight, Crystals, Numerology and Gene Keys.”
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We interpret and create patterns, habits, and programs through our senses - a system through which we engage with life. It is a machine and as such, has to be tuned, aligned, and fueled.
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The mind is a monkey that needs to be trained. It shouldn't direct your emotional or spiritual states. To achieve true peace of mind, you must build the muscle of stillness,. This is how the mind stays centered and focused on practical tasks.
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Emotional Intelligence is the ability to not just react to what is happening, but to tune into your needs, wants, desires and express yourself clearly. It is the power to listen with compassion, seeking to understand and navigate boundaries.
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Sustainable life choices made from a spiritual connection to Self are the choices that make life spectacular. Some look at this as Quantum Physics and others as the Holy Spirit and the Soul. Say it how you wish, it is the same, it is all that is.
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We are all here as a result of sex. It is the spark of inspiration to breathe life into being. It's magic, the cosmic orgasm of life. However you explore the power and majesty of Sex, it affects all you do in life.
Build a life you love!
Want to see what's possible when sex positive, spiritual folks get together?
you are digging the holes you fall in? Disconnected and numb to feeling anything or anyone?
We are all here as the result of sex. If you are drowning in shame and scared to talk about it, you have disconnected from your sexuality and thus from what brings you alive. When we hit those rock bottom moments in life, it is a result of distancing ourselves from parts of ourselves.
In my own life, I found a way to break this cycle of separation from self, to break free from self-sabotaging habits and scarcity that reenforced my trauma, addictions overwhelmed reactions, anxiety, and depression.
I cracked the code and figured out how to put the pieces together in a sustainable way that makes life juicy and supportive.
We are in a relationship to everything! The foundation of work, romance, friends, etc. is your relationship with yourself. Are you ready to build a life you love?
